“Death is not the end. There remains the litigation over the estate.” — Ambrose Bierce

Sounds like a joke, but ask any family who’s dealt with probate—and they’ll tell you, it’s heartbreak wrapped in red tape.

Most Americans don’t talk about estate planning until it’s too late. Maybe it feels awkward. Maybe it feels premature. But here’s the truth: dying without a plan costs more than just money.

Probate Isn’t Just a Process—It’s a Burden

If you die without a living trust or will, your estate enters probate, a legal process to distribute your assets. Sounds fine, right?

Now read this:

• In California, probate can eat up 4–7% of your estate in fees. On a $500,000 home, that’s $20,000–$35,000 gone, according to SmartAsset.

• Nationwide, average probate costs range from $3,000 to $10,000+, based on estimates from Nolo Legal Encyclopedia.

• It takes about 9–20 months on average to settle probate, according to a national survey cited by MBB Legal.

Meanwhile, your family waits. Bills pile up. Emotions simmer. And courts decide who gets what

The Emotional Toll

When grief hits, the last thing your loved ones should be doing is battling bureaucracy. Yet without a plan:

• Children fight over heirlooms.

• Spouses get blindsided by debt.

• Survivors suffer unnecessary delays for access to life insurance or even funeral funds.

No one wants to be remembered for chaos. But when you don’t plan, that’s often the legacy you leave.

Planning Is the Most Loving Thing You Can Do

Estate planning isn’t about being rich—it’s about being responsible. It says:

“I thought about you. I wanted to protect you, even when I couldn’t be here.”

And it doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive. Tools like living trusts, advance healthcare directives, and special needs trusts can make all the difference. And yes, they work in your state.

Don’t Wait for a Wake-Up Call

Most people don’t plan until after a divorce, a diagnosis, or a death in the family. But by then, the damage is already done.

So let this be your sign: Don’t wait until something happens. Start your plan today.

“Family is not an important thing. It’s everything.” — Michael J. Fox

Show them they matter. Put your plan in writing. Start your journey with Legacy Promises Network and leave behind clarity, not conflict.